Pre-Marriage Coaching

Defining “You” Before “I Do”: The Pre-Marriage Self-Discovery Program

Step Into Marriage with Confidence, Clarity, and Authenticity

Are you engaged or recently married and wondering how to build a strong foundation for a thriving partnership?

As someone who’s helped dozens of clients through the divorce process AND personally experienced marriage/divorce, here is my secret: You must define “you” before you can confidently say “I Do.”

Welcome to Defining “You” Before “I Do,” a 4-week transformational program that is designed to help you uncover your authentic self and enter into marriage with confidence and intention.

Who This Program is For:

This program is designed for growth-minded individuals who are:

Engaged or newly married and seeking clarity about their values, goals, and identity.
Eager to avoid common pitfalls and proactively prepare for a fulfilling marriage.
Excited to deepen their self-awareness and bring their best selves into their relationship.
Balancing a successful career and/or busy home life and feeling unsure about whether they’ve fully prepared for this next chapter.
Ready to break free from societal expectations and create a marriage that aligns with their unique desires and values.

Why This Program is Different

When you hear “marriage prep,” you may think of a couples weekend retreat, an awkward couples’ therapy session, or a “check-the-box” religious class so you can get married in a church. (I’ve been there.)

To create a happy and fulfilling marriage that lasts the test of time, you need (and deserve) more meaningful and personalized prep. A strong, fulfilling partnership starts with two whole, self-aware individuals. So, building a strong foundation for marriage starts with YOU.

This program embodies that principle, helping you:

Gain clarity about your personal identity (values, goals, and more), so you can show up authentically in your marriage and ensure there is alignment with your partner.

Raise your emotional awareness, so you can navigate challenges and resolve conflict with your spouse without your emotions damaging the relationship.

Release stereotypical, gender-based roles and decide what works best for YOUR marriage, based on your unique situation and the reality of the modern world.
Feel confident about entering into marriage, knowing that you have a strong sense of self AND a relationship that allows both of you to grow and thrive – individually AND together.

Program Highlights:

4-week program
4 self-assessments that measure your stress response, communication style, core values, and marriage roles/responsibilities.
1-hour group coaching call each week, structured as follows:
- 1st half: Education/discussion, recorded
- 2nd half: Hot seat coaching, not recorded

1-hour private coaching session, to debrief your assessment results and address any specific questions/concerns you have before you get married
Bonus calls with guest speakers that specialize in areas like finances, boundaries, intimacy, legal, and more. (recorded)
Workbook with education, tips, resources, and reflection prompts to help you prepare for marriage
Access to chat with me between coaching sessions (in the group chat and/or privately)
BONUS: Signing up as a couple? Incredible! To celebrate this empowering choice, you can add on couples coaching sessions at a discounted rate.

What’s the total investment?

This group coaching program ordinarily costs $999, BUT for a limited time, you can invest in this offer for only $750.

After you make your deposit to secure your spot in the next round, you will receive a special code to receive an additional discount of $249 off the normal price of this program.

Why I Created This Program

As a Divorce Attorney, Marriage and Divorce Coach, and someone who has personally experienced marriage and divorce, I’ve seen firsthand how a lack of self-awareness can contribute to relationship challenges. Before my first marriage, I didn’t take the time to explore my identity, values, or emotional patterns. This led to struggles that ultimately contributed to the end of that marriage. I want your marriage experience to be different. I created Defining “You” Before “I Do” to help others avoid the pain I experienced and enter into marriage with confidence, clarity, and intention.

Take the First Step Today!

Don’t miss your opportunity to join the next round of this transformational program. Spots are limited to ensure a personalized and impactful experience. Secure your place today with a deposit of $100, which will be applied toward the full program fee. This deposit guarantees your seat and your commitment to creating the strongest foundation for your future.

Interested, but not quite ready to commit? Let’s Chat!